How do I deal with brothers that are driving me CRAZY?!?

it sounds like the house maybe a little too crowded. why don't you and your soon to be husband just get a nicely priced 1 bedroom apartment near the family. i mean if they consistently keep bugging the heck out of you, my solution would be to move. with 5 brothers in the house, it sounds like 3 of the older ones need to move out and find jobs and apartments. it sounds like a happy family but even some family needs to leave the nest.