LGBT: please help me. I'm a crossdresser's wife and I'm lost here?

Hi have read and reread your story,have been there and done that long ago,thank goodness I like being a man,am gay we feel all feeling;sanyway I can see what is happening at your house,now sorry but you must put carmen first as she is a personality busting at the seam's to get out ,the more she's out the better your husband will feel about himself,how old are you and he and you say you have two ? or three children ? bless you darling I feel for you and carmen,first thing to do is request to be my friend and in my network and I will give you my ph number and email address and the whole world need not know,david